Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Stanley Victor Payze with the following comment:
I am doing research on my family tree in the UK. By the way I can't assist with photos of your graves since I live in South Africa but I am involved in a similar project for the Genealogical Society of SA. I know how much work it is for little or no thanks and I do appreciate your hard work.ThanksNicky